Confusion among parents and the general public over what exactly social-emotional learning is can sink efforts to expand the practice in schools.
That was the tough lesson learned by state policymakers in Missouri when the state department of education tried to implement state social-emotional learning standards that prompted significant pushback.
Social-emotional learning is the teaching of non-academic skills鈥攕uch as empathy, cooperation, and emotional management鈥攖hat are important for success in school and life. While that may not sound controversial, SEL has been swept up in larger political arguments over education.
In Missouri鈥檚 case, nearly 2,000 public comments on the proposal revealed that many people were both concerned and confused about social-emotional learning鈥攆or example, some comments claimed that the SEL standards would interfere with parenting; invite teachers to practice psychology without a license; or be used to justify controversial diversity, equity, and inclusion initiatives.
The situation in Missouri is by no means unique.
Missouri ultimately opted to make the standards it developed an optional framework for schools. But experts who spoke with 澳门跑狗论坛 said that the politically charged situation鈥攁nd others like it鈥攕erve as a reminder that there are many ways school and district leaders can unintentionally undermine their efforts to adopt or expand social-emotional learning.
Here are five mistakes school, district, and state leaders make that can cause public backlash when putting together social-emotional learning programs.
1. Not recognizing parents as partners
You鈥檝e heard it before: parents are kids鈥� first teachers, and that is especially true when it comes to teaching social-emotional skills. That鈥檚 why engaging parents and guardians is so important when implementing social-emotional learning, said Justina Schlund, the vice president of communications for the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning, or CASEL, a national group that advocates for SEL. And key to building those family partnerships is communication, she said.
鈥淭he more we open communication lines and partner with parents as educators to talk about social and emotional learning, to bring them into discussing, like, what are the social-emotional strengths of their kids? What are different strategies that work? The more we do that, the better it is not just for the implementation of social-emotional learning but for the kids themselves,鈥� she said.
Some communication approaches include newsletters that describe what students are learning and define certain terms, surveying parents and guardians on what social-emotional skills they consider important for their children to learn, or even starting a social-emotional learning book club for parents.
2. Using educational jargon
Many parents already know intuitively what social-emotional learning is. And a 2021 survey by the Thomas B. Fordham Institute, a right-leaning think tank, found that there is broad support among parents across the political spectrum for schools teaching many social-emotional skills, such as setting goals, being good citizens, and controlling one鈥檚 emotions.
But Adam Tyner, the national research director at the Fordham Institute who led the study on parents鈥� attitudes toward SEL, said that when educators use jargon it has the effect of excluding important stakeholders such as parents.
鈥淧arents have views about their kids鈥� social and emotional well-being, and they don鈥檛 need a Ph.D. or an education degree in order to have informed opinions about how their children are going to learn to cooperate,鈥� he said. 鈥淏y putting a bunch of jargon around it, you鈥檙e excluding people. Why should we be so surprised when people who are skeptical about what is going on in schools anyway have all kinds of cynical ideas about what is going on?鈥�
3. Not defining the concept
After stripping away the jargon, do parents know what SEL is? Do teachers? Do you?
鈥淚 think we do have to think critically about what social and emotional learning really is, because there is a lot of confusion about that and you get a lot of different answers when you ask experts in the field,鈥� said Tyner. 鈥淪ome people will relate it to these age-old things that are pretty uncontroversial, but then other people will say that it鈥檚 a distinct, research-based set of aligned practices.鈥�
Because SEL can be a nebulous term, some district leaders have found it helpful to come up with a definition of SEL for their own school community and then make sure all teachers, administrators, and support staff know what that definition is and are comfortable communicating it with parents and community members.
Experts emphasize that it is important to take this step because educational leaders have found that if they don鈥檛 define SEL, someone else might do it for them.
4. Using a one-size-fits-all approach
How social-emotional learning is defined and what it looks like should vary from community to community. SEL programming and initiatives are more likely to get pushback if they鈥檙e not tailored to the local culture and values, said R. Keeth Matheny, an SEL trainer and consultant and the founder of SEL Launchpad, which provides SEL-focused professional development to schools.
That might mean using 鈥渃alm moments鈥� to teach students to deescalate their emotions in districts where the community may be uncomfortable with students learning meditation or mindfulness he said.
鈥淎ll of them are a similar style of intervention, each with slightly different pieces, but the work is still the work: we need to help kids learn how to manage their emotions and calm down when they are escalated,鈥� said Matheny, a former teacher.
鈥淲e need to understand as a field that we don鈥檛 do this work to a community, we do it with a community, which means that we need to find out what are the community鈥檚 priorities, concerns, and worries and make sure that we鈥檙e using strategies, methods and terms that fit with those communities鈥� needs,鈥� he said.
5. Ignoring or dismissing people鈥檚 concerns
Dismissing parents鈥� or community members鈥� concerns鈥攏o matter how off base or silly they may sound鈥攐ften only serves to harden opposition, said Matheny.
Instead, educational leaders should listen to people鈥檚 worries and complaints. Taking the time to listen can help hone arguments for social-emotional learning into a concept that will convince naysayers of its benefits.
Thanking people for caring about their students and schools and highlighting common ground鈥攍ike wanting all students to graduate and move into the workforce knowing how to get along with people who are different from them鈥攁re also important, Matheny said.
