While sitting down at my computer to commence a brain dump on all the things I want to say about this topic, I鈥檓 simultaneously fussing at my middle schooler to start his homework on the last of our days off from Hurricane Matthew. It wasn鈥檛 always this way. He used to come home right after school, get right to work, and be finished within 30 minutes. And then seven classes started assigning homework. Now, my kid, who鈥檚 as academic as he is athletic, says he hates school. I say, 鈥淣o, darlin鈥�. You just hate homework.鈥�
As a sympathetic educator, I used to listen to parents share stories about how homework that should take 30 minutes was instead a three-hour fight. On a case-by-case basis, we鈥檇 adjust the homework to make it less stressful on the family. And then I started wondering, what about the parents who aren鈥檛 coming in for conferences? What鈥檚 going on in the families of kids who never do their homework?
Becoming a connected educator has shifted my thinking on a variety of educational issues, including the topic of homework. A blog post by educator Justin Tarte in November 2014, catapulted me in the direction of changing my homework practices forever. It was a few weeks before Thanksgiving, so when I read about assigning alternative homework over the holiday break, I jumped at the chance to try it. Students and families were happy with the shift, as you can see in this photo and testimonial:
鈥淭hanks to Samantha Hulsman鈥檚 super cool HW, my son is the happiest camper. He鈥檚 watching his first documentary on the history of video games. Really I don鈥檛 think I鈥檝e ever seen him so interested in something. Another part of Evan鈥檚 HW was to try something that he鈥檚 never tried before, food/drink-wise. Now this was hard as he鈥檚 a pretty adventurous eater but with some help we came up with specialty ... Pepsi and milk (we used Vanilla Coke). He loved it!!!鈥� 鈥擸asmin Ramos, mother of three.
Although homework assignments for my students have been more meaningful since that Thanksgiving, it is still difficult to help people see the benefits of not assigning mundane practice pages each night. After considering all the elements that feed into this age-old habit, I鈥檝e been able to consolidate my thinking into three categories.
Expectations
I think parents expect their children to have homework nightly, and teachers assign daily homework because it鈥檚 what we鈥檝e always done. Even though the shift in 21st-century learning has created a global marketplace in which the learning game has completely changed, we still hold true to old habits and traditions. Students don鈥檛 need to know the same things we did because they now have access to the entire world with one click. We鈥檙e preparing them for jobs that haven鈥檛 even been invented yet. Kids need to learn how to think instead of what to think. We have to help parents (and other educators) see that it鈥檚 OK to not have homework.
How It Should Be
Synthesizing the knowledge I鈥檝e gained from renowned educators and has helped me form a strong opinion on how the concept of homework should be handled鈥攊f it is conducive to a child鈥檚 learning or simply requested by parents. Not all children find it easy to sit and do paperwork. They should be playing outside, talking, creating, helping, and learning about the world around them. Today鈥檚 learning is about collaborating, problem solving, and persevering in the face of adversity. Here鈥檚 what I tell my students and parents when they come to me with expectations about homework:
- Does my child have homework? Not necessarily. I am helping your child learn to be an independent problem solver who works on concepts and ideas at home because he knows that is something he needs to achieve a current goal or reach a new level of understanding.
- Doesn鈥檛 my child need homework to learn the material? The human brain is amazing! If there鈥檚 a math concept she needs to master, spending just six minutes a day practicing can change the wiring in her brain and help her reach that goal. Thankfully, there is no math gene that can be broken in her body.
- Why can鈥檛 my child just do a worksheet? The standards are very different now than when you and I were students. You may not be able to help him using the conceptual, procedural, or applicative methods that we鈥檙e working on in class, and that鈥檚 OK. This 鈥渘ew math鈥� really is going to make your child college and career ready, and it鈥檚 something I strongly support.
- How can I help my child with math? I鈥檓 going to show your child ways she can practice at home that will give her instant feedback and allow me to see how she is progressing to standard mastery. I can then help her in class the next day with the information gleaned from her report. If you want to help as a parent, give her a quiet place to study in the evenings when she is ready to work towards her goals. Don鈥檛 project your feelings about math onto her, and support her productive struggle. Encourage her when the going gets tough, and discuss how she can help herself.
What to Do Instead
How should we fill the time previously spent toiling over hours of homework? As I share with my classroom parents, let鈥檚 get back to doing something that鈥檚 sadly turned into a novelty: Eat dinner together! It sounds so crazy to think that we have to be told to eat dinner with our children, but I know from personal experience that we all need that reminder from time to time. has found that there is a major decline in children鈥檚 health and wellness, coupled with an increase in drug use and problems among teens, because families don鈥檛 sit down together and share their days over a meal. The hustle and bustle of today鈥檚 world is hurrying our well-being right out the door. Interested in making a change like our family did? The founders of make it really easy to get started. Simply talking to your children about their day and learning about their hopes, dreams, challenges, and changes is infinitely more important than any worksheet we can send home.
